You’ve achieved so much. On paper, it all looks solid.
But beneath the surface, there’s a quiet exhaustion… a sense that something still isn’t aligned.
This isn’t about more strategy.
This is about your nervous system, your energy, and the invisible beliefs still running the show.
You don’t need to prove yourself.
You need to remember yourself.
Let’s name the patterns so we can start the healing:
1. The Safety WoundCore belief: “It’s not safe to receive or hold wealth.”
This often shows up as self-sabotage just as things begin to expand. You pull back, delay launches, discount your work anything to stay within the ‘safe’ zone.
Heal it by: Building safety in your body to hold more. Practice receiving without immediately compensating.
2. The Abandonment WoundCore belief: “If I don’t overdeliver, I’ll be left behind.”
You stretch yourself too thin, take on too much, and say yes when you mean no all to avoid the feeling of being dropped or forgotten.
Heal it by: Reclaiming your boundaries as sacred. Let aligned clients choose you without needing to earn it.
3. The Visibility WoundCore belief: “Being fully seen isn’t safe.”
You hide your brilliance, mute your magic, or water yourself down to avoid judgment.
Heal it by: Letting your full self be visible in safe, intentional ways. Voice what you really want to say.
4. The Rejection WoundCore belief: “If I charge what I’m worth, I’ll be judged or left.”
So you undercharge. You downplay. You over-justify.
Heal it by: Creating offers that reflect your value and practicing receiving without apology.
5. The Hard Work WoundCore belief: “I must earn abundance through relentless effort.”
You equate exhaustion with worth and fear ease as laziness.
Heal it by: Redefining work as energetic alignment, not punishment. Let ease be a natural not a strategy.
6. The Ancestral WoundCore belief: “I shouldn’t want more than my lineage had.”
You feel guilt for desiring expansion and unconsciously dim yourself to stay loyal to those before you.
Heal it by: Honoring your lineage and leading it forward. Your wealth is their evolution.
7. The Guilt WoundCore belief: “I don’t deserve this.”
When things go well, you self-sabotage. When support shows up, you resist it. You quietly believe that thriving costs someone else something.
Heal it by: Rewriting the belief that your success is selfish. It’s not. It’s sacred.
You weren’t born with these wounds.• Self-Inquiry: Which of these wounds do you recognize in your business or leadership style?
• Embodiment: Practice receiving with neutrality. Let “more” feel normal.
• Support: These are tender territories. Don’t walk them alone.
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